I change during the course of a day. I wake and I'm one person, and when I go to sleep I know for certain I'm somebody else..
— Bob Dylan.
She is a true artist, but not necessarily in the typical sense where she's out painting happy little trees. Often enough though, she is perfectly capable of this. Rather, it's that she use aesthetics, design and even her choices and actions to push the limits of social convention. She enjoys upsetting traditional expectations with experiments in beauty and behavior – chances are, she expresses more than once the phrase "Don't box me in!"
Happy to Be Who She Is
She lives in a colorful, sensual world, inspired by connections with people and ideas. She takes joy in reinterpreting these connections, reinventing and experimenting with both herself and new perspectives. This creates a sense of spontaneity, making her seem unpredictable, even to her close friends and loved ones.
Despite all this, she is definitely intraverted, surprising her friends further when she steps out of the spotlight to be by herself to recharge. Just because she is alone though, doesn't mean she just sits idle – she takes this time for introspection, assessing her principles. Rather than dwelling on the past or the future, she thinks about who she is. She returns from her cloister, transformed.
She lives to find ways to push her passions. She may indulge in riskier behaviors like gambling and extreme sports, as such. Fortunately her attunement to the moment and her environment allows her to do better than most. She also enjoys connecting with others, and has a certain irresistible charm.
She always knows just the compliment to soften a heart that's getting ready to call her risks irresponsible or reckless.
However, if a criticism does get through, it can end poorly. She can handle kindly phrased commentary, valuing it as another perspective to help push her passions in new directions. But if the comments are more biting and less mature, she can lose her temper in spectacular fashion.
She is sensitive to others' feelings and value harmony. When faced with criticism, it can be a challenge for her to step away from the moment long enough to not get caught up in the heat of the moment. But living in the moment goes both ways, and once the heightened emotions of an argument cool, she can usually call the past the past and move on as though it never occurred.
Meaning Is in Every Expression of Life
Her biggest challenge is planning for the future. Finding constructive ideals to base her goals on and working out goals that create positive principles is no small task. She doesn't plan her futures in terms of assets and retirement. Rather, she plans actions and behaviors as contributions to a sense of identity, building a portfolio of experiences, not stocks.
If these goals and principles are noble, she can act with amazing charity and selflessness – but she might at times have a more self-centered identity, acting with selfishness, manipulation and egoism. She needs to remember to actively become the person she wants to be. Developing and maintaining a new habit may not come naturally, but taking the time each day to understand her motivations allows her to use her strengths to pursue whatever she has come to love.
An Alt of Wyn.